Re: [Jambo] To the married women

My dear sister/s

Has anyone ever told you that you have the power to build or destroy your family for ever? You play a very great role in not only shaping the destiny of your children but also in contributing to the success of your husband.

How you behave and react to situations will either attract people to your home or chase them a way for ever.

Allow me my sister to share just a few notes with you.

1.Allow God to be first,best and last in your life.
2.Spend more time on your knees praying for your children and husband.
3.Respect,respect,respect,and respect your husband and never do anything to give an impression that you despise him.
4.Train yourself to talk less to your children,husband,relatives,and the community at large.
5.There is much more to life than money;It will help if you stop putting too much emphasize on money. 6.Whenever things happen as they will always,forgive and forget.
7.Don't waste time fighting your in-laws.Instead make them friends.You will be amazed how this will make your life easy.
8.Human beings including yourself hate whining.So please stay away from whining as it drives men nuts.
9.Try to live your own life and avoid competition.Remember that this competition thing has sent some to the graves before their time.
10.Have a positive attitude always and treat every body with respect and dignity.
11.Even when you are doing extremely well,just lead a simple life.Almost everybody appreciates those who are humble and friendly.
12.Leave gossip alone.The time you spend in this dangerous game can better be spend in doing something for the Lord.
13.Avoid the temptation of being rude to your husband.
14.Know for sure that no one does well in cooking than you.Avoid forcing your husband and children to cook and then turn around and speak against their bad food.
15.Every husband loves a clean house.
16.Remember that men are easy to please.If you play your cards properly,they will do anything for you.If you don't believe me then talk to my wife.
17.Avoid taking other women's advise.We are all made of different materials.
18.Avoid the temptation of being everything at your home.Accept your position as a wife and mother and let your husband be the husband he was created to be.
19.Never forget and tell your husband that if you left him today you will get another lover.This kind of loose talk always damages everything.
20.Hold fast what you have.Thank God for the husband and children that he gave you.
21.Do your best to be a peace maker.It doesn't cost you much.

And finally,I would like you to know how important you are in shaping your family,helping your husband succeed,and in contributing to society.God wants you to be like the woman described in proverbs Chapter 31.

Just a thought.

Pastor Birai-612-386-4608