Re: [Jambo] To the un-married girls

When it comes to when to get married, how to get married, and who to marry, almost all girls, at least the ones I know have all the answers, or do they think they do. Even as I write this note, I can almost anticipate the reacrtions to some suggestions "I know". But can you at least let me finish.

Has anyone ever told you what the guys are looking for? Whether they make sense or not here they are:

1.A dedicated and faithful christian
2. A neat, simple, and down to earth lady. 3.A lady who has love for visitors, children, and will love him the way he is,his parents,and his friends.

If you think that the above,take a back seat,relax,and then reflect on the following:

1.Guys don't like girls who say yes to every date.
2.Drinking,smoking,and night club don't go well with many guys.
3.Buying a house is a good thing except that men will fear you no matter what you tell them.
4.Other people's recommendation-pastors,workmates,neighbors, and church members can and have always made a difference. So be nice to everyone.

It might also also be important to remember the following:

1.Much as you might be good looking,just remember that time comes when no one will be interested with you. You need to know the right time to say yes.
2.Be nice to every guy who asks you to marry him. Even when your computer tells you that the guy is too poor, ugly, and uneducated,if at all there is something like that,still respect them. There was this guy who loved this lady so much. He kept begging this lady to marry him. But the lady didn't like him. She therefore said mean and nasty things to the guy. But guess what, for some reason, she endered there.

But the thing that you need most in your life is the Lord Jesus. Hold on to Him and do not let Him go until He has given you the man of your dream.

As for pastor Birai,he will continue praying for you that you avoid being your greatest enemy. Will you?

Just a thought.

Pr Birai-612-386-4608