Re: [Jambo] To the married women ,

I think umekosea kwa number 4. If you expect the woman to talk less, where is communication which is the basis of a relationship???? Isn't this what pulls couples apart, to mention just one factor. And how is a mother supposed to become close to her children and relatives if she talks less to them.

I've always been taught that it's important to get a man you can really talk to coz as you get older, this factor becomes very important.

Also through my own experience, having many long conversations with my mother over the years has actually made me more closer to her to the point that she feels to me very much like my elder sister.

And relatives, let me just say, if you don't talk to them, they will not really like you and will not be willing to help you when you are in need. This goes to the community as well.

I guess you must have made a typo or just did not elaborate the sentence well.

Nyar Ugenya